Book Spotlight on Follow Me: The Life and Adventures of a Military Family by Elizabeth Carroll Foster

Her husband said, “If the military is going to keep interrupting my education, I will just make a career of it.” She agreed, with little knowledge of what such a lifestyle would mean for a family. It took only one meeting of military wives with the unit commander’s wife to inform her exactly what would be expected of a military wife. The women were told to read Army Wife, the book that laid it out.

He applied for Officer’s Candidate School in Kansas. She returned to her parents. In April, 1951, their son was born, and he left for OCS three weeks later. Their daughter was five days old when he shipped to Korea for a year. He returned, two more sons were born.

The family traveled the US as new assignments were made for her Army pilot. In 1959, they stepped off a plane into hot, dust-filled air at the Karachi, Pakistan airport.

Two years later, her husband was trained as a test pilot by the Navy and they were sent to Edwards Air Force Base where he tested Army helicopters.

He retired in 1975. She and the children agreed they had an adventurous life, but one they wouldn’t exchange.

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An Honest Look into the Joys and Sorrows of Being a Military Wife
By Charlene R.

This is a memoir of a woman who became the wife of an Army officer and pilot. As a young bride, she was clueless as to the demands that would be placed upon her. She felt ill-prepared for the nomadic lifestyle and her frequent moves from pillar to post while raising four children. In spite of that, she succeeded.

In the Preface, she writes, “Military life is hard for anyone who experiences it, whether of short duration or over many years. Yet, as difficult as frequent moves, school changes, goodbyes and long separations are, it is a life of travels to places outside of one’s dreams, of making new friends, and many, many fun times. It is a life of building memories to be unwrapped and relived years later.”

She recalls “We traveled across the United States, lived in Pakistan, toured in India and Italy with four youngsters and a dog … my first airplane ride was with a new baby dosed for teething. Four babies were born in five years.”

Foster also observes “After twenty-five years as the spouse of a U.S. Army officer, I think I know a thing or two about military wives. They are full of grit.”

She notes that military wives have much in common, regardless of the branch of service. Conditioned to be strong, they show endurance. When life gets hard, they may sit down and cry, but not for long. There is always another move to make, another house to turn into a home. And during tragedies, they share food, tend the deceased’s children, and put the house in order for a grieving friend.

Foster’s book includes photos which help the reader feel a connection to the author and
her family. Her story will resonate with many who have lived a life in the military.

A great read!
By Wayne C

I came across this book on Amazon and had to get it as Karachi ( my birthplace) was mentioned in the introduction. Elizabeth describes in intimate detail her life experience, following her military husband all over the U.S. and abroad. It is an amazingly detailed chronicle of her life and the adventures and struggles of a military family. Reading a personal biography is only half the fun if there are no photographs included in the book. This book has it all. A must read! A well written book.!

How To Purchase

Follow Me: The Life and Adventures of a Military Family by Elizabeth Carroll Foster is available through our bookstore.

About The Author

Elizabeth FosterWife of a career military officer and mother of four; Journalism degree, University of Maryland; In 1970s, Freelancer for regional newspapers and magazines in Washington, DC Metropolitan Area, regular contributor to Maryland Magazine for few years until it went defunct, Southern Maryland correspondent for Maryland Farmer; managed to get two articles in The Washington Post (Maryland Section, Feb. 18, 1988 & Mar. 3, 1988); In 1980s,Section editor @ Maryland Independent; editor of St. Mary’s County Beacon; IN 2000s, author of three books: Southern Winds A’ Changing, novel; Follow Me: The Life and Adventures of a Military Family, memoir; and Musings, Mutterings and Aw Shucks, short story collection; edited and published Carroll history (out of print), compiled from records’ research Virginia Carrolls and Their Neighbors 1618-1800s, and North Carolina Carrolls 1600-1850.

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Finding Support For Your Writing Goals

Finding Support For Your Writing Goals | Southern Authors

Writing a book can feel like a big project. You’ll be carving out time in your day to write. You’ll likely be using skills that may feel new to you. And you’ll be pushing your boundaries. It’s an exciting time, one in which you may need to feel the support of others.

Family and Friends

If you feel like your friends and family are going to be supportive, share your goals with them. Most often, people will be quite excited to hear that you’re writing a book. They’ll pepper you with questions and you’ll feel motivated to continue. If you’re going to be writing at home, you’ll also need the support of those you live with. They need to know to leave you in peace during your writing time.

Critique Groups

Consider connecting with other writers to get feedback on your material. You can find online critique partners or groups. There are probably other fiction critique groups in your community. Keep in mind that what your critique partners say is only an opinion.

Listen to their feedback and only take away what feels useful. Let go of the rest. Remember, as a member of a critique group you’ll also be required to contribute your feedback. Smaller groups can be good because there are fewer members and less to read.

Writing Organizations and Associations

There are both community organizations and national organizations to explore. These writing associations can provide you with the information, support, and feedback that you need. There’s something quite inspiring and motivating about attending an event for writers. It makes you feel like you belong and that you are capable of achieving your writing goals. It’s also great to talk to others and hear their success stories.

Support for your writing goals is essential. Create that support system for yourself. Join a local writing group or association, find critique partners, and share your writing aspirations with positive friends and family.

Next week, we’re going to deviate from the process of writing for a bit to talk about promoting your book because the promotion process begins long before the book is finished. Ideally, you’ll have an audience of people waiting to buy your book.

Finding Support For Your Writing Goals

How to Plan Your Writing

How to Plan Your Writing | Southern Authors
Did you know that if you write 500 words a day you’d have written a book in about five months? The average book length is between 70,000 and 100,000 words. 500 words is about two double spaced pages. You can write two pages a day, right? You can probably write more than that. Is 1000 doable? Then you’ll have a book in about 70 days.

Planning your writing requires a few key elements. The first is to set a daily writing goal. There are two ways to approach your daily writing goal.

Word count goal – For example, write 1000 words a day

Time goal – For example, write for an hour.

Here’s another situation where you may want to try both to see which best suits your needs and writing style. For example, you may be able to write 1000 words in twenty minutes. If you have more time in the day to write, then an hour a day may be a better goal because you’ll get more accomplished.

When you self-publish, there are no rules about how long your book should be. However, remember that you’re writing for your audience and they have preferences. You can look at a dozen books in your chosen genre and average the word count.

You might notice, for example, that fantasy books tend to be longer than mysteries and that young adult books tend to be around 60,000 to 70,000 words. This information can help you set your writing goals too, especially if you have a publication date in mind.

By the way, if you have a publication date in mind, make sure that your first draft is completed at least a month beforehand. You’ll still need to edit and format it before it can be published.

Another element that will help you is to create a supportive writing environment. Some people need to write in complete silence. Others write more effectively when they’re surrounded by strangers and noise. Some write better in the morning and others prefer the dark of night.

When striving to find your best writing time and environment think about….

  • When your imagination is most active.
  • What home distractions may prevent you from writing
  • Where you might write
  • What you might enjoy having around you as you write. For example, would you prefer to have an endless supply of coffee and free Wi-Fi or do you want to be surrounded by pictures of family and friends?

A famous horror writer says that he wrote his first book sitting in his car parked in front of a graveyard each night. Creepy, but productive!

Read the other blog posts in the series here.

How Do You Get Started With Your Story Idea?

How Do You Get Started With Your Story Idea? | Southern Authors

Once you have a story idea you’ll want to decide what approach to take. There are two basic approaches to writing a story. The first approach is good old-fashioned plotting. You sit down and create an outline of your story. You know what happens in the beginning, the middle, and the end. You know what the climax of the story is and you plan exactly when it’s going to happen. Some plotters outline every scene before they actually begin writing.

The other approach is the opposite of plotting. It’s called writing by the seat of your pants. It means that you sit down at your computer and you just start writing. The plot unfolds as you write and each scene may even surprise you.

Plotter, Pantser, Or Somewhere In Between?

There is a third option and it’s where many people find themselves most comfortable. You may have a loose idea about the plot and story arch. However, you don’t have a formal outline or a scene-by-scene plan.

There really is no right or wrong way to approach your book or fiction material. Write in a way that feels most productive to you. For example, you may find that writing with a structured outline feels too rigid and slow. Others find that without a plan, they tend to stare at blank screens because they have no idea what to do with the next scene.

Best advice…try both options. Try outlining your plot and try writing by the seat of your pants. What’s more important than your plotting approach is your day-to-day writing approach. Let’s look at how to plan your writing.

Do you think you will be a plotter, a pansters or something in between?

Read the other blog posts in the series here.

Self-Publishing Fiction and Finding Your Fiction Idea

Self-Publishing Fiction and Finding Your Fiction Idea | Southern Authors

Self-publishing has never been so dynamic. It’s a continually evolving industry. People are reading more now than ever before and it’s never been easier to publish a successful book.

Digital publishing paved the way. However, now you can print your books and sell them at major retailers like Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Here are a few examples of the success that’s possible with self-publishing:

  • Amanda Hocking wrote 17 novels while working full time. She self-published all of them as e-books and sold more than a million copies.
  • Erika Leonard (E.L. James) sold more than 70 million copies of her “Fifty Shades” trilogy worldwide. She also sold the movie rights to her book, increasing her sales and profits.
  • Romance author, Barbara Freethy has sold more than 2,000,000 books, writing about the Callaway family.
  • And another romance author, Bella Andre has sold more than a million copies of her novels about the Sullivan family.

What about you? Are you the next big self-publishing success story?

According to the New York Times 81 percent of people say that they have at least one book in them. It’s quite likely that you have a story idea that you’ve been considering for a while, maybe years. Well now is the time to write that story and publish it. With a little planning and preparation, you can profit from your imagination.

Who knows? You may be the next self-published author to make it big, see your novel purchased by mainstream publishers, and turned into a movie! Sounds pretty fun, right?

In the coming weeks we will discuss:

 

Finding Your Fiction Idea

Most aspiring writers have a genre in mind before they begin writing. You know what you enjoy reading and where your imagination takes you. If you don’t have a genre in mind just yet, here are some to consider:

  • Crime/Detective
  • Children’s
  • Young Adult
  • Literary Fiction
  • Fantasy and Urban Fantasy
  • Horror
  • Romance
  • Mystery
  • Poetry
  • Science fiction
  • Suspense/Thriller
  • Western

Each of these genres can have a subgenre. For example, there are young adult Fantasy books and romance stories that are set in the Wild West. There are literary fiction novels that are suspenseful, set in the past, or contemporary.

Why is choosing a genre important?

Your genre is important because readers tend to stick to their genre. For example, romance readers read romance and horror fans read horror. This loyalty gives you an opportunity to learn about your readers and write specifically for them. Also, by choosing a genre you can study similar books and look for patterns and rules.

For example, did you know that in a mystery you are supposed to introduce the villain in the first thirty pages? In a romance, the hero and heroine have to meet in the first three chapters or thirty pages.

If you have a story idea, that’s fantastic. What genre is it in? Where does it fit? Not sure? Head to the bookstore and start reading the back of books in a few genres that you are considering. Look for concepts that match your own. That’s your genre.

What if you don’t have a story idea?

For a writer, there’s nothing more common or frustrating than sitting down to a computer only to stare at a blank page. Welcome to the world of writing! If you don’t have a story idea, don’t worry about it. An idea will come to you. Here are a few fun ways to find inspiration:

  • Read Fiction – Some of the best ideas have been inspired by reading fiction or something from a favorite genre.
  • Leverage writing prompts – the internet is packed with writing prompts and books about these helpful little starter ideas.
  • Play “what if” – Start with a tiny idea. For example, a woman is driving down the street. Now ask yourself what if. What if she gets into an accident? What if there’s a man in the back of her car? What if she sees something she’s not supposed to? This “game” can help create exciting plots.
  • Start writing longhand – Sometimes the computer screen can feel daunting. Grab a pencil and a notebook and start writing whatever comes to mind. You might end up journaling a bit, as you write, that’s okay. You might also find creative inspiration.

Next week we will discuss how to get started with your story idea.

Do you have a book within you?

Fifty Things Under 50 Bucks To Promote Your Book

Fifty Things Under 50 Bucks To Promote Your Book | Southern Authors

****Staff Note: This article was written several years ago, however the majority of these marketing ideas are still applicable today*****

These days it seems like everyone’s book marketing budget is a little tighter. If you’re feeling the pinch, or if you’re just looking for some great free stuff to do on your own, here are some tips that could help keep you on track.

1) Buy your domain name as soon as you have a title for your book. You can get domain names for as little as $8.95. Tip: When buying a domain always try to get a .com and stay away from hyphens, i.e. penny-sansevieri.com – surfers rarely remember to insert hyphens.

2) Head on over to Blogger.com or WordPress.com and start your very own blog (you can add it to your Web site later).

3) Set up an event at your neighborhood bookstore. Do an event and not a signing, book signings are boring!

4) Write a few articles on your topic and submit them onto the Internet for syndication. You can submit them to sites like ezinearticles.com and articlecity.com.

5) Check out your competition online and see if you can do some networking.

6) Do some radio research and pitch yourself to at least five new stations this week.

7) Ready to get some business cards? Head on over to Vistaprint.com. The cards are free if you let them put their logo on the back, if you don’t they’re still really inexpensive.

8) Put together your marketing plan. Seriously, do this. If you don’t know where you’re going, any destination will do.

9) Plan a contest or giveaway. Contests are a great way to promote your book.

10) Google some topic-related online groups to see if you can network with them.

11) Send thank you notes to people who have been helpful to you.

12) Send your book out to at least ten book reviewers this week.

13) Do a quick Internet search for local writers’ conferences or book festivals you can attend.

14) Create an email signature for every email you send; email signatures are a great way to promote your book and message.

15) Put the contents of your Web site: book description, bio, Q&A, and interviews on CD to have on hand when the media comes calling!

16) Submit your Web site to the top five directories: Google, MSN, Alexa, Yahoo, and DMOZ.

17) Write a great press release and submit it to free online press release sites like: PR4 – http://www.prlog.org/ , http://www.1888pressrelease.com/, http://i-newswire.com/, http://www.prfocus.com/

18) Write your bio and have someone who can be objective critique it; you’ll need it when you start pitching yourself to the media.

19) Schedule your first book event!

20) Start your own email newsletter; it’s a great way to keep readers, friends and family updated and informed on your success.

21) Start a Twitter account and begin tweeting. If you don’t think Twitter is significant, think again; it’s been a major part of our marketing strategy for over 2 years now (before anyone even knew what Twitter was).

22) Develop a set of questions or discussion topics that book clubs can use for your book, and post them on your Web site for handy downloads.

23) Add your book info or URL to your answering machine message.

24) Start a Facebook Fan page. Fan Pages are much better than groups because they’re searchable in Google.

25) See if you can get your friends to host a “book party” in their home. You come in and discuss your book and voila, a captive audience!

26) Find some catalogs you think your book would be perfect for and then submit your packet to them for consideration. If you’re unsure of what catalogs might work for you, head on over to http://www.catalogs.com/ and peruse their list.

27) Go around to your local retailers and see if they’ll carry your book; even if it’s on consignment, it might be worth it!

28) Add your book to Google Book Search.

29) Research some authors with similar subjects and then offer to exchange links with them.

30) Start a Squidoo page and make sure it’s linked to your Twitter Account and Facebook Fan page.

31) Make sure your blog is connected to Amazon via their Amazon connect program (yes, it’s free).

32) Ask friends and family to email five people they know and tell them about your book.

33) Leave your business card, bookmark, or book flyer wherever you go.

34) Subscribe to Google Alerts and make sure that you are getting alerts under your name as well as your book title(s), brand, and keywords.

35) Pitch yourself to your local television stations.

36) Pitch yourself to your local print media.

37) Work on the Q&A for your press kit. You’ll need it when you start booking media interviews!

38) Pitch Oprah. Go ahead, you know you want to.

39) Is the topic of your book in the news? Check your local paper, and write a letter to the editor to share your expertise (and promote your book!).

40) Stop by your local library and see if you can set up an event. They love local authors.

41) Do you want to get your book into your local library system? Try dropping off a copy to your main library; if they stock it chances are the other branches will too.

42) Go to Chase’s Calendar of Events (www.Chases.com.) and find out how to create your own holiday!

43) Going on vacation? Use your away-from-home time to schedule a book event or two.

44) If your book is appropriate, go to local schools to see if you can do a reading.

45) Got a book that could be sold in bulk? Start with your local companies first and see if they’re interested in buying some promotional copies to give away at company events.
46) Don’t forget to add reviews to your Web site. Remember that what someone else has to say is one thousand times more effective than anything you could say!

47) Trying to meet the press? Search the Net for Press Clubs in your area, they meet once a month and are a great place to meet the media.

48) Want a celebrity endorsement? Find celebs in your market with an interest in your topic and then go for it. Remember all they can say is no. Check out the Actors Guild for a list of celeb representatives.

49) Ready to get some magazine exposure? Why not pitch some regional and national magazines with your topic or submit a freelance article for reprint consideration?

50) Work on your next book. Sometimes the best way to sell your first book is by promoting your second.

Penny C. Sansevieri
The Cliffhanger was published in June of 2000. After a strategic marketing campaign it quickly climbed
the ranks at Amazon.com to the #1 best selling book in San Diego. Her most recent book: From Book to Bestseller was released in 2005 to rave reviews and is being called the “roadmap to publishing success.” Penny is a book marketing and media relations specialist. She also coaches authors on projects, manuscripts and marketing plans and instructs a variety of coursing on publishing and promotion. To learn more about her books or her promotional services, you can visit her web site at www.amarketingexpert.com. To subscribe to her free ezine, send a blank email to: mailto:subscribe@amarketingexpert.com
Copyright © 2006 Penny C. Sansevieri